{"id":243,"date":"2023-10-19T16:49:22","date_gmt":"2023-10-19T23:49:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sa-arizona.org\/?p=243"},"modified":"2023-10-19T16:49:22","modified_gmt":"2023-10-19T23:49:22","slug":"the-problem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sa-arizona.org\/es\/common-readings\/the-problem\/","title":{"rendered":"El problema"},"content":{"rendered":"

Muchos de nosotros nos sentimos inadecuados, indignos, solos y asustados. Nuestro interior nunca coincidi\u00f3 con lo que vimos en el exterior de los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al principio llegamos a sentirnos desconectados de nuestros padres, de nuestros compa\u00f1eros y de nosotros mismos. Nos desconectamos de la fantas\u00eda y la masturbaci\u00f3n. Nos conectamos absorbiendo las fotograf\u00edas, las im\u00e1genes y persiguiendo los objetos de nuestras fantas\u00edas. Codici\u00e1bamos y quer\u00edamos ser codiciados.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nos convertimos en verdaderos adictos: sexo consigo mismo, promiscuidad, adulterio, relaciones de dependencia y m\u00e1s fantas\u00eda. Lo conseguimos a trav\u00e9s de los ojos; lo compramos, lo vendimos, lo intercambiamos, lo regalamos. \u00c9ramos adictos a la intriga, a las burlas, a lo prohibido. La \u00fanica manera que conoc\u00edamos de liberarnos de ello era hacerlo. "\u00a1Por favor, con\u00e9ctate conmigo y hazme sentir completo!" Lloramos con los brazos extendidos. Anhelando la Gran Soluci\u00f3n, regalamos nuestro poder a otros.

Esto produjo culpa, odio a uno mismo, remordimiento, vac\u00edo y dolor, y nos vimos empujados hacia adentro, lejos de la realidad, lejos del amor, perdidos dentro de nosotros mismos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nuestro h\u00e1bito hac\u00eda imposible la verdadera intimidad. Nunca pudimos conocer la uni\u00f3n real con otro porque \u00e9ramos adictos a la Naciones Unidas<\/em>real. Optamos por la \u201cqu\u00edmica\u201d, la conexi\u00f3n que ten\u00eda la magia, porque<\/em> pas\u00f3 por alto la intimidad y la verdadera uni\u00f3n. La fantas\u00eda corrompi\u00f3 lo real; la lujuria mat\u00f3 al amor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Primero adictos, luego lisiados del amor, tomamos de los dem\u00e1s para llenar lo que nos faltaba a nosotros mismos. Enga\u00f1\u00e1ndonos una y otra vez pensando que el pr\u00f3ximo nos salvar\u00eda, realmente est\u00e1bamos perdiendo la vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00a9 1982, 1989, 2001 SA Literatura.
Reimpreso con autorizaci\u00f3n de SA Literature.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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